I enjoy writing about’Relationships’ because it is one of my favorite subjects. Honestly, today relationships have proven to be similar to the’changing of clothes’ every day. Folks really like to change their partners every now and then. The gist of all is: ‘the changing times’. However, if you aren’t able to foster or nurture one relationship, then you are not likely to nurture the other. Though, there is one exception in my view to what I just stated; it’s not to target those relationships that are abusive, where the victim female or male is emotionally or physically abused. We get to live life once, and it does not mean that we succumb to any connection that is torturous in nature.
After conducting a short research study about the topic, it is realized that different writers have made varying observations concerning this subject. Each author expresses his/her own opinion as they perceive and define ‘relationship’.
Turn’on’ your Positive Behavior in Relationships
Writer Carr in ‘Positive Psychology: The Science of Happiness and Human Strengths’ said that positive psychology is linked to the positive emotions and affection in your relationship. When both the partners work through their conflicts, and sort them out by communicating respectfully and forgiving each other’s mistakes; then they tend to gain high levels of satisfaction in their relationship. If you love and care about your partner then it’s obvious you will work towards sharing a positive connection.
Quit seeking Perfection in your partner
The realization is important that we are human beings, and none of us is perfect. Therefore, we can’t expect perfection in our partner. There’ll be sure behaviors that may irritate, or there might be some weaknesses that are too tough to accept, but the bottom-line is you need to deal with those Pest Control in a positive way without humiliating or demeaning your partner. Rather than reacting impulsively to those behaviors, you can wait for the right time to talk with your partner about certain behaviors that seem bothersome. The confrontational talk has to be non-judgmental, so that your partner is a good receiver to your concerns.
Overcome the Temptation
As we are living in a new era it is now easy to switch partners or move on without giving a thought to your relationship. The biggest temptation nowadays appears to be ‘gap-fillers’. Gap-fillers are those ‘so-called friends’ who make an entry in your life at just the wrong moment. When you face challenging times in your marriage or dating relationship, then it’s normal that you have a friend who acts as your spouse replacement. He/She is filled with all the great talks, assurances and may even want you to think that life is worth living, so why live with a partner you are not happy with?
However, if you think really deep, it can be examined or assessed that if you can’t live or put up with one partner, then there isn’t any guarantee that you have the ability to develop a new partner. The beginning days of a new and rosy relationship might appear to be the best, but you don’t know when the identical relationship may turn to your worst.
The best advice when your marriage or relationship is not working would be to wait patiently and to give yourself and spouse the time to work out whether it’s truly over, and for real reasons so that you don’t get an opportunity to regret in life for missing out on the very best.